Come to me all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. (Matthew 11:28)
As this new year begins, I am praying for all who visit this site. I don’t have to know you to understand that God has a purpose in leading you here. I have learned in my life one important fact and that is that God hears our prayers and answers. For whatever reason he brought you here, I welcome you with love. It doesn’t matter who you are or what your need is, God’s strength is powerful enough to cover it all. Your pain, your struggles and your broken heart cannot stop the perfect plan God has for those who seek him. At some time in our lives, we all make bad choices and fall; but to those who take hold of the hand of Christ, there can be no failures. The truth is that there is no limit to what God can do through you and for you if you are willing to surrender your brokenness to him.
I want to share something that happened to me a few years ago that impacted my life. My elderly father had been living with me and my husband in our home. Almost four years to the month, my father got ill and I had to take him into the emergency room. I felt weary and alone sitting in dad’s room waiting for tests to be done when I heard the nurse talking to a man on the other side of the curtain. Apparently the young man tried to commit suicide when he found out his wife and kids were moving out. He sounded sad as he told the nurse that he felt like foolish for attempting something like that. After talking to him a bit, the nurse left to get his discharge papers. I had some of my faith articles with me and I felt strongly led to go over and give them to this stranger. I hesitated and decided to think it over before letting this man know I overheard his story. What if he got angry that I listened in? What do I even say to him? I panicked! After a few seconds, I just got up and went over. I turned back the curtain a little and quietly said to him, “Hi, I am so sorry but I overheard what happened and I want you to know that I care. More importantly, God cares, and he has a future for you even if your marriage ends. He can give you hope and healing no matter what you are feeling. I will be praying for you and I have some articles I wrote that I think may help you, if that is okay with you.” The young man simply looked me in the eyes with tears and said, “Thank you!” I went over and hugged him and he told me his name and I told him mine. We talked for a little and I tried to encourage him. Then he said something that truly humbled me to my soul. He said, “I know you don’t realize it, but you just saved my life today!” Amazing. Even though I was dealing with my seriously ill father, God still wanted to use me to bring his love and hope to someone who was ready to give up.
The next day, my daughter and I were with my father at the hospital when he passed away. It was a crushing ordeal for me, but somehow in all of my pain I remembered how Christ had used me to show his love to a stranger. God’s power was with me even as my father was dying. His peace just filled me as I understood without a doubt that God was now taking care of my father in heaven! His perfect plan did not fail me.
Life here on earth is not easy. We are still on the battle ground of a perishing world awaiting the final call of Christ. Our momentary problems are working out eternal ramifications. They are preparing us for royalty in a kingdom that will never end. We are always going to have struggles and pain, but we must never lose our focus for God’s is always with us on the path that he has prepared for our lives.
My hope for every believer is that you understand that the storms in your life have no power to destroy you because God will always be bigger. No matter how devastating it may seem, there is a purpose and plan for all that you must endure and he knows how to work it out for your good. I am praying for you now.
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January 2, 2011 at 11:44 am
Pat
“Wooooweeee”!!!!!!! That’s good news,that’s good news!!!!!!! Thank God for you my sister you’re a real blessing to me,and may God continue to use you greatly. Happy New Year my sister,I love you. 😀 😀
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January 2, 2011 at 11:59 am
Marianne Lordi
Thank you, Pat, you are ALWAYS such a source of encouragement to me. I know how God uses you! I learned a valuable lesson that day in the hospital. I realized that if I surrendered my will to God, no matter how many struggles I have, God is more than able to take me through them and still use me for his work.
I appreciate you, Pat, and I thank God for blessing my life with a friend like you!
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January 2, 2011 at 12:16 pm
Pat
Amen,amen Marianne it’s amazing how God uses us even in our times of fear.It is so wonderful being saved and I’m so happy we are friends and sisters. 😀
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January 2, 2011 at 6:51 pm
lifestreamsflow1
Beautiful word today, Marianne. You writings are always filled with our Lord’s TRUTH…but today’s was especially anointed for me because of brokenness I have experienced this Christmas emotionally…still 10 years since my husband died. Holidays are always difficult for widows, but this one is the current trial…so words of LIFE were received, today…with gratefulness.
God’s continuing Word to Me in 2011 is this: SURRENDER ALL!
In this Year of Great Significance, through my own writings on Word Press and other places, I am to continually call to everyone to whom my voice goes out….to SURRENDER ALL! Hearing this message repeatedly will not frustrate the hearer when they have agreed to HIS CALL presently.
I SURRENDER ALL. I SURRENDER ALL. ALL TO JESUS, I SURRENDER. I SURRENDER ALL.
Those of us who have surrendered to God in times past are not excused, for His Word TODAY is STILL …SURRENDER ALL!
I would be honored if you would allow me to post this message of SURRENDERING BROKENNESS as part of an on-going series on SURRENDER! Please let me know if that would be OK with you.
Most of us have truly SURRENDERED…many times…but if not current…our Surrender is in part…and not whole. We must ALWAYS SURRENDER to Him…day by day. Minute by minute. Yielding to HIM and HIS WAYS, resisting temptation. It is never a place to which we “arrive” but are continuously submitting!
May your year be blessed in HIM and your spirit increase as you sit in HIS PRESENCE!
SURRENDERING TODAY…
Sandy
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January 2, 2011 at 7:12 pm
Marianne Lordi
Hi Sandy, I am so sorry that your holidays are difficult since your husband passed. My heart is with you. Yes, by all means post this message anywhere you think it would help.
I am so in agreement with you about surrender. That is the most difficult act we are called to do and yet it is the most important. As long as we think that we have a better way to do things than God, we hold back the power of God to work through us. I have also found that real peace comes when you purpose in your heart to yield to God and in all areas of life. He alone can see the beginning to end of our lives so he would know what is best for us. It is a process. You are right that submission is something that you are continuously learning.
God bless you, Sandy, and may God give you his peace as he takes you to the place of rest in his strength. As you surrender to his ways, you are also in a position to receive all that he has for your life. That is good!!
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January 2, 2011 at 8:31 pm
j.d. stegall
thanks for the great blog, Marianne. it’s a good reminder to us all in the fiath that we are in a war versus evil. we can have great victory as long as we trust in the King.
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January 2, 2011 at 10:16 pm
lifestreamsflow1
http://lifestreamsflow1.wordpress.com/2011/01/03/surrender-all/
God used your article today to “stir” me and call me to bring this word continuously…this year, especially!
Thank you, so much, my sister and friend! Your prayers and insight are precious to me. Please find me on Face Book (Just Sandy Brunson) and let’s share this year of SURRENDERING ALL to Him together!
Blessings,
Sandy
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January 2, 2011 at 11:39 pm
Marianne Lordi
I am with you on this,Sandy!
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January 2, 2011 at 11:41 pm
Marianne Lordi
Hi j.d. Glad to hear from you again! Thanks for visiting and commenting. I have been over to your site and see that you also are getting God’s word out.
Hope you and your family are well. May God bless and annoint you this coming year for the work he has planned for your life!
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January 3, 2011 at 1:36 pm
Linden
How inspiring! And how true. What a great message to have in focus and 2011 begins. Thanks for the words!
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January 3, 2011 at 1:56 pm
Marianne Lordi
Thank you, Linden, for always inspiring me!
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January 3, 2011 at 8:39 pm
Rachel
Hi Marianne – Happy New Years! I really enjoyed this post. Thank you for sharing that story – it reminds me not to be too consumed with my situation -no matter what it is – because God may be have something more in store in that situation. Thanks for the encouragement.
Rachel
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January 3, 2011 at 11:46 pm
concernedx2
I am always amazed at how God uses you to write down the right things at the right time. You did well….so very well; then and now.
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January 4, 2011 at 12:00 am
Marianne Lordi
Thank you, Rev. York. You are such an inspiration to me!
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January 4, 2011 at 12:02 am
Marianne Lordi
Hi Rachel, Happy New Year to you also. I still keep you in prayer. Thanks for visiting and sharing a comment. I have to tell you that I really hesitated to write this. There are still some painful memories there for me but yet I can’t help but see that God was truly with me when I couldn’t bear the pain alone. I guess what you said is true in that God did have something more in store for me that day. God is always amazing.
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January 5, 2011 at 9:10 pm
Noel
Hello Marianne, I felt goose bumps as I read this post. It really inspired me! I found your blog through a comment you made in my blog. I often feel down because I feel I cannot fulfill the mission that God gave me, but this story teaches me that God gives us opportunities that we don’t even plan ahead. I hope you continue to be a blessing for others. Please pray so that I can be God’s instrument in His Kingdom . God Bless you!!
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January 5, 2011 at 11:06 pm
Marianne Lordi
Hi Noel, I am so glad you stopped by. I really enjoy your site and will be returning soon. You speak from your heart and I can tell that you mean what you say. You already are a powerful instrument in God’s kingdom. You could not write like you do unless God’s annointing was with you. I will be keeping you in my prayers for God to use you even more.
I wrote this message because I had a lot of guilt and pain when my father died. Yet, as I remembered that God came to me in that emergency room with my father and emboldened me to speak to someone I did not know about his healing love that I understood that God is always with me! He was able to help me deal with my pain and to focus on the bigger picture in his plan for our lives. I was so blessed because I know now that every painful moment we face is also an opportunity for God to use us in a big way. That is a lesson that I will not forget.
God bless you, Noel, and I will be praying for you each night.
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January 6, 2011 at 12:08 pm
Noel
Thank you, Marianne. It’s good to know that a stranger is praying for me. I will do the same for you. God Bless You. (by the way, today I took a step in blessing others, for God’s Glory! 🙂 )
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January 6, 2011 at 12:22 pm
Marianne Lordi
Good for you, Noel! That is awesome! I will be watching to see how God uses you and the gifts he has given you. And, I will be praying for you as I do all of my blog friends that God has put in my life.
By the way, you need to attach your gravatar to your name so that others can just click on your name to be directed to your blog. 🙂
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January 8, 2011 at 2:42 pm
Mike
This is a good example of something that I am becoming more and more aware of lately. At any given time there is both good and bad things happening. Whether good and bad in our own lives or good and bad in the lives of those we are closest to. I don’t know how God handles it all, but I know he does.
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January 8, 2011 at 3:26 pm
Noel
Marianne, I tried to link as you suggested but not sure if it worked. any suggestions? thnks.
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January 8, 2011 at 4:16 pm
Marianne Lordi
Noel, go to your side dash and click on USERS. Under Users, click on Personal settings. Then click on Account details and put in your blog address. Then when you comment on a blog, you site can be viewed when they click on your name!
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January 8, 2011 at 4:23 pm
Marianne Lordi
Hi Mike! You are right that there is always good and bad things that happen in our lives. I guess I am finding out that God is able to use those bad or painful times for our good if we can just trust him. Trusting was a very difficult thing for me to do, but I am learning. God bless you, dear friend!
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January 9, 2011 at 11:01 am
timbob
Good morning. This is a great reminder to be always ready to share the gospel of Jesus Christ. This was a soul at his wits end and who can tell what tragedy may have been averted by your being at the right place, at the right time, and with the right words to offer. When we begin to consider the overwhelming level of despair in the world, it’s sobering. May we be a city set upon a hill at all times; sharing the light of Jesus who can save, heal, and restore the brokenhearted.
Blessings always in Jesus name.
timbob
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January 9, 2011 at 2:30 pm
Marianne Lordi
Hi timbob, you just put it so well when you said that we must be a city set upon a hill shining the light of Jesus. I really like that thought because that is exactly what we should be. Our light and momentary problems have a purpose. For whatever reason that God had me there to talk to that man, I am only glad that I did not let my feelings of doubt stop me. It has taught me now to always be aware of God’s quiet voice leading me to step out of my comfort zone and to be bold for his kingdom. That is not always easy for me.
Thank you for stopping by and commenting, timbob. I always appreciate your thoughts and encouragement.
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January 9, 2011 at 3:04 pm
Noel
Hey Mike, God can handle both good and bad because He is God. And this is the beauty of being a believer, that we can learn to depend on God, instead of on our limited strengths, even if we do not full understand it. God bless.
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January 9, 2011 at 7:59 pm
Bridget
Thank you so much for sharing these words of hope with us! They are much needed. I am blessed by your faith, and very thankful that you are allowing God to use you to minister to others.
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January 9, 2011 at 8:50 pm
Marianne Lordi
Hi Bridget, I am so glad that you were blessed by this message. That is always my prayer. I want you to remember that I have been praying for you every night! Let me know how you are doing. God is with you and working things out for your best. Just keep trusting!
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January 23, 2011 at 7:12 pm
Ken
I am sorry to hear of your Father passing away. But praise God for using you with that young man who wanted to commit suicide. This is a very powerful testimony and I thank you for sharing it. Even during our most difficult circumstances, God can and does use us for good which will last for all eternity. Thank you for your prayers and visiting my blog and leaving your much appreciated comments.
God bless you.
Ken
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January 23, 2011 at 8:09 pm
Marianne Lordi
Hi Ken, You certainly have been through so much with losing your wife and your job and having to trust God through it all. Somehow in the midst of all that happens to believers, God is weaving his perfect plan. It is always hard to understand but then if we did, we wouldn’t need faith.
I pray for all my blog friends and I have added you to the list. I really enjoy your writing and how God has annointed you to write of his truth. You are truly an inspiration to a lot of us.
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January 24, 2011 at 12:03 am
Ken
Thank you Marianne. Your kind words and prayers are most appreciated. I am blessed reading your posts and I am praying for you and others who are sharing the truth.
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May 19, 2011 at 9:45 pm
Priti
Thank you…..please keep praying
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May 19, 2011 at 9:54 pm
Marianne Lordi
I will, Priti. Just keep your eyes on God and let him take your burdens from you. No one can do it all by themselves. It is when you get to the end of yourself that you find that God was always with you!
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September 6, 2011 at 3:43 pm
Sue C
God works in mysterious ways. I was sitting tonight writing my service for Sunday knowing it was about 911 anniversary. Somewhere was that still, small voice telling me ‘beaty for brokenness’ but I could not find a truly inspiring story except one of my own. Thanks for sharing this. Wi will share parts with the church on Sunday because its only when we experience true broeknness can we experience true thanks and offer true forgiveness.
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September 6, 2011 at 4:39 pm
Marianne Lordi
Hi Sue, I am so glad you stopped. I always believe God has a purpose in bringing those here that he does. So many of us try to avoid the pain of being broken but actually the real peace we have comes only when we allow God to break us of those things which hinder us from a closer relationship with him. You are so right that the only way to experience true thanks and forgiveness is to get into the position of complete surrender. And the only way to do that is by being broken. Our God must always break us in order to fill us with more of him. What could be better!
That is wonderful that you are going to share parts of my story. It was a real experience for me and one that impacted my faith. God bless you, dear sister.
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March 8, 2012 at 4:57 am
Thabisile
What an amazing testimonies,it gave life to my soul. where will i go if i live his presence. we really need people like u guyz as a youth. God bless.
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March 8, 2012 at 12:52 pm
Marianne Lordi
Thank you, friend, for visiting and commenting. Hope you stop back or email me if you have any prayer requests!
God bless you and keep your eyes on Christ!
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August 27, 2012 at 2:43 pm
Minister Aiken
Hi Marianne,
I pray all is well with you.
I miss ya my sister.
God bless!
Debra
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August 27, 2012 at 8:31 pm
Marianne Lordi
We have to talk, Debra. Maybe this week I can call you!
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